FOR LOVE, FOR FRIENDSHIP and FOR REAL
"It isn't based on how many secrets you share, it isn't hoe well you get along nor how much you like each other and it isn't how people often see you together... it's how you appreciate the differences, the gaps, the trials, the mistakes and still...
they look at you straight from the heart...
without hatred,
without judgement,
without prejudice,,,
only pure acceptance and respect."
><(;> Lucky 9, Yes! It’s been nine years since we first became friends. One year more and we can almost fill-in the questions back on our freshmen years in college: "what could we be ten years from now?". We're not just four in the group; there are several more different personalities that you can meet. Only that we're somehow performing in the same stage. Still? Not so. We'd already shared different stories of our lives. Who would ever guess we can be this far,,, and still single.
Single with different stories, different choice and different reason with us.
Way back college we're all riding that juicy joyride of our teenage life. One of us had sneaked a bf twice inside the campus (as in 2 diff. men in a sem.). Another one got her beau, who I remembered to be the guy that was linked to different girls, but the winner is (applause -- applause!!!) siya siyempre (winner long ago). The other girl had with her those in-famous personalities over short-lived relationships. Lastly, oh yes this girl had just stolen a kiss from that dearest lad.
>>> Long - - long - - ago, yes that all came to pass. We're in reality, we know what love is and we're still discovering the wonderful friendship we have.
Just recently, we took on a friend who chose to stay away from her bf permanently and let go of all those precious times that they use to have way back. Now, she's one of us. Totally in the same ground where we are. The other one chose to be happy with her job and get more inspired with her dreams and devotion; And who would even thought that one of us would actually choose to remain single and learn more of herself and win the crisis she's struggling; She has been the easy go luck for your eyes, but now she remain footed with friends. She refrain from that dating games she used to deal and chose to value more of what she have and enjoys her self more.
This doesn't mean we're zero love life. Of course we're in-love, definitely. Only that we're putting it in reservation before it fails the soonest. This is our choice. We're single, but this' only takes 10yrs. since we bonded and befriends. We can count more years and could have another best choice to give ourselves.
Amid those years of being together we learned one thing that had never fail us, our friendship. We committed mistakes, crusades, love and triumph. We even argue a lot, we cried and laugh over downfall and we still find ourselves running with each other’s company. We're different souls, different thoughts, different stories but we possess only one great heart for love, for friendship and for real... to love our selves and to love others as well (the right and the wrong ones).
tinikyzda
07/142008
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